Autism Mom - raw

This is one of the most true, and raw, things I've ever seen on the internet. What she expresses, her tears, her anger, her fears; I've been there. I just know she is going to impact so many young Moms who are walking the path she is on. The fears change as the years go on ... but they never go away. The anger, the frustration and the reminder that our lives are not "normal" is there there. Not as often, but sometimes life does remind us that our "normal" is not really "normal". Most people truly will never understand our world. That's okay. We have a great life. We have a great world. It's not "normal" but it's good. I wish I could give this woman a hug.

My friend Samantha Garcia once commented that it's easy when our kids are small and cute; but what happens when they're big and hairy and still behave like a toddler. People aren't going to be so understanding. That has always stayed with me. It's in my head as I watch others in public. It's in my head as I see others watching us.

Thankfully Tyler's meltdowns are few and far between now. He's a great guy to have around. We are blessed. But, yes, those times happen. Those times when someone else decides they're going to retire and travel the country and leave their responsibilities behind and I know that will NEVER be an option for us. Those times happen when autism rears its ugly head and we have to walk him through anxieties and meltdowns.  Those times when plans have to change, or we miss out on things because - well, that's just our life. It's okay. I love my life. But, I applaud this woman's bravery to be so honest and transparent. I don't think I could have been so real at that point. Not to the world She's an amazing woman in my book

AND - if you (or someone you know) is walking this walk, I am ALWAYS here to talk. I have no answers, no magic wand, but I know the path. Feel free to give my name, my phone number, my email to anyone that needs to talk.

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